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objectifying

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To objectify is to present as an object especially of sight, touch, or other physical sense.  To be a woman in a man's world is tough...it's challenging. However, it's never wrong to think...is it tough for a man to live in one too?  Why do I bother to talk about this? one. I am majoring in Hospitality Management and from what I've learned...it's one of the largest industry with male managers supervising female subordinates. two. i think it's an interesting topic to discuss/think about. It will always remain controversial. I speak fairly and with respect to both sexes equally. Equally..hmm...do we live in a world of equality? I think not.  I must firmly admit in many circumstances, women are treated substantially different than men. How so? We are treated as objects by men. Men continuously use women as a consolation prize, ranking woman's appearances, competing against their peer with whom they have slept with or whom they consider as a "toy." ...

Almost lover

I'd never want to see you unhappy I thought you'd want the same for me Goodbye my almost lover. Goodbye, my hopeless dream Should have know you'd bring me heartache almost lovers always do So you're gone and I'm haunted And I bet you are just fine Did I make it that easy to walk  right in and out of my life?

21 questions

why do we need to write in blogs? would you love someone even if they didn't love you? Why do we say we don't want to hurt the ones we love but end up hurting them in the end anyway? I'm definitely at a crossroads. I've begun to question my friends...family...loved ones. I can't seem to understand people. Will I ever? recently..someone told me.."everybody wants to be loved." Does that mean be with the person that you love even if you can't reciprocate the feelings? Is that an excuse for cheating on someone? I have a friend...or i guess i had a friend who told me that he couldn't tell me a secret because he didn't want to hurt my feelings. he considered me as his "best friend". IS that a valid reasoning for not telling me?? "because i didn't want to hurt you"... B.S. I would be hurt regardless, it's the matter of time...It's like stabbing me unless it's pulled out the pain continues to build up and the...