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tribute to l'amour (since it's Valentine's Day next month)

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...most of the time, it's something I feel that can't be described. At the same time, I don't even know whether what I feel is l'amour or not because I fear facing those feelings. I fear it might not get reciprocated or understood. We've all felt this feeling. It doesn't have to be love for a partner..but love in general. We all desire to be loved from the day we are born until we die. Babies long for their mother's love. Mother's long for their husband's love. Husbands from their father or brother..etc. etc. Then there are ways of expressing love. tough love. platonic love. unconditional love. And everyone expresses love differently. Everyone receives it differently. Why does a relationship end catastrophically when you love too much or too little? Is it possible to love anyone? first love. true love. love at first sight. it's all so silly. I learned about a beach in Denmark. At the end of the beach, you stand watching the ocean waves....

Dreams

We all have them. and most of the time, we want it to come true. we want it to become real. But how can we if we don't do anything about it? To be realistic, the term we should really focus on is GOALS. The terms dream and goal intertwine with each other or sometimes used separately depending on the context. Goals are achievable. Goals help us to think realistically. Goals are dreams with a deadline! I'm not saying it's childish to dream but it's childish when you don't set a limit for yourself. When you're a child, you dream of becoming a doctor, an engineer, a professional athlete, etc... and when you're old enough, you can and should turn those dreams into goals. Only then, it will become real. So what's your dream? And will you do something about it to turn it into a goal so that eventually you can make your dreams come true? Don't let it fool you or discourage you because you think it's silly or childish to dream. Dreams can...