in between...

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Hello folks,
I thought since it's the first week of Spring term and since I feel a bit lighter than usual...I'd make a short visit to the blogging world. The orientation week went by really fast with greeting new BBA students and 9 exchange students from Ireland, Hong Kong, California, China, Turkey, and Florida.
I got the opportunity to speak to the exchange students exclusively and give them a brief idea of my semester experience. Now that I think about it, I didn't tell them much about my experience for a couple reasons, one being that I don't like to talk on and on about my experience in front of strangers and the other reason is because I think it's better to not hear stories since everyone goes through different experiences regardless of what one has heard or read. SO instead, I introduced myself and then I asked them to ask me questions regarding travelling, exams, classes, library info, etc.
Whatever, i was satisfied. hehe

Anyway, I feel a bit like an outcast... I don't belong with the new exchange students because I'm not new....and I'm not a permanent student there. I'm just there in between the two groups. I always seem to be in between two groups. Tibetan or American, extrovert or introvert, passive or aggressive...i don't know.
Can't I just be mix of everything?? Why do we need to be labeled one or the other? Why does life have to be organized? I watched The Iron Lady the other day with a friend...and after we came out of the theater, my friend said that she was the most hated and loved woman of all times.
This sort of made me think that it is possible to be mix of everything. Some people will hate you and others will love you. I'm no where compared to Iron Lady but sometimes I get the feeling on campus that I get along with all sorts of people but those groups don't get along with each other. WTF!?

I hate the society sometimes..because I blame the society and media for creating fixed images of how we should perceive each other or classify one another. *sigh*

So you ask...how do I deal with this?? How should we all deal with this???
>>>>>Keep calm and carry on (at least for now)

Rome wasn't built overnight. Things should be acknowledged and understood slowly and calmly.

I think that's all for tonight.

ciao! and Thank you for visiting my blog!

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