Thinking out loud
purpose of life = finding yourself and doing what you love = happiness.
How do we achieve happiness? = creating a plan or simply doing what you want.
downside to not planning thoughtfully only results in temporary happiness. for example: retail therapy
On the other hand, life is short. live it to the fullest right?!
Does doing what you want make others happy? = some yes, others no
but you can't make everyone happy. So who cares, keep doing what you're doing, right?
NOT.
Prioritize the important people and the people that's been there with you thru thick and thin. Family.close friends.your loved ones.
if you want to achieve happiness - drama = you should be doing what you want without thinking of others?
No.
what happens when you do things without thinking about others?
you start to isolate yourself but you gain freedom.
However, you loose the real meaning of being happy or "true" happiness. also, everything becomes superficial. You start to work more towards getting what you want and when you've achieved it, you create another goal. You turn into a robot. accomplishing goals after goals.
WELL... That's not really a bad thing, per se.
But then...you loose the meaning of living a fulfilling life. If you don't change now or if you don't do anything about it, it'll be too late.
... What do you do? ...
You find BALANCE.
Life = finding balance between your work and personal life = Happiness.
How do you find balance???
You start from within. Mind. body. and soul. They should all be aligned to achieve true happiness.
Sure, you'll get angry or be unhappy every now and then but those are temporary feelings. You let it slide and look at the big picture as a whole.
How do we achieve happiness? = creating a plan or simply doing what you want.
downside to not planning thoughtfully only results in temporary happiness. for example: retail therapy
On the other hand, life is short. live it to the fullest right?!
Does doing what you want make others happy? = some yes, others no
but you can't make everyone happy. So who cares, keep doing what you're doing, right?
NOT.
Prioritize the important people and the people that's been there with you thru thick and thin. Family.close friends.your loved ones.
if you want to achieve happiness - drama = you should be doing what you want without thinking of others?
No.
what happens when you do things without thinking about others?
you start to isolate yourself but you gain freedom.
However, you loose the real meaning of being happy or "true" happiness. also, everything becomes superficial. You start to work more towards getting what you want and when you've achieved it, you create another goal. You turn into a robot. accomplishing goals after goals.
WELL... That's not really a bad thing, per se.
But then...you loose the meaning of living a fulfilling life. If you don't change now or if you don't do anything about it, it'll be too late.
... What do you do? ...
You find BALANCE.
Life = finding balance between your work and personal life = Happiness.
How do you find balance???
You start from within. Mind. body. and soul. They should all be aligned to achieve true happiness.
Sure, you'll get angry or be unhappy every now and then but those are temporary feelings. You let it slide and look at the big picture as a whole.
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